How to bring up kinky sex

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Do you have a pretty vanilla sex life? Tame, subdued, same old, touch me here for this reaction, insert A into B, roll over and go to sleep? Many others however, are hungry for change and variety, and are looking for a little more: more pleasure, more adventure, more risk, and more reward.

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Welcome to In Bed with Gigi Engle, a weekly column in which sex and relationships writer Gigi Engle answers your most intimate questions. Nothing is off-limits! From threesomes to anal, unrequited love to cheating: we want to hear it all.

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For better and for worse, the internet has exposed us to all the kink there is in the world. Nothing is really taboo anymore when it comes to online fantasies. Yet when it comes to explaining those desires to real-life partners, many people are too shy.

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Every night I sleep with an eye mask, ear plugs, lavender essential oil, and a teddy bear. We all have a gift, and this is mine: Saying things others might be too shy to ever bring up, and helping others to do the same. In broaching the blindfold with my husband, I used one of my favorite tricks in the book: Acknowledging something diffuses potential awkwardness instantly.

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Although kink is becoming increasingly mainstream, most of it is still rooted in subcultures. A fetish technically refers to an attraction to an inanimate object, although this includes body parts, such as feet like a foot fetish. Kink means sexual activities that fall outside of sex that society traditionally considers acceptable.

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Illustration by Heather Benjamin. Sometimes a couple's interests don't totally match up. One of you likes model trains while the other would rather crochet sweaters for the cat; one partner aspires to trek the length of the Appalachian Trail while the other's idea of an ideal evening involves a large plate of barbecue, a half-ounce of high-quality weed, and a Fast and Furious marathon.

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I still cringe thinking about the first time I tried bringing up my sexual fantasy to a guy, back in my early twenties. When I finally had the courage to ask him about it, I was a nervous wreck, stammering and sweating all over this poor dude before he realized I was just begging for some light bondage and he obliged like a champ. Why was I so embarrassed?

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Yes, it's OK for good girls to be "bad" in bed. When it comes to having a fabulous, fulfilling sex life, one of the golden rules is "never say never. You don't have to identify as kinky to enjoy kinky sexand you don't have to do anything painful, humiliating or degrading in order to enjoy the erotic benefits.

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Kink is becoming a hot topic again. As kink gets greater mainstream exposure, more and more couples are becoming interested in bringing kink and fetish-play into their relationships. One of the biggest obstacles when it comes to introducing kink into a relationship is overcoming the social stigma.

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If you want to try something new with your partner in bed, it doesn't matter whether you've sexplored the vast seas of sexual experience or you're just dipping your toes into the water, talking about uncharted territory can make anyone nervous. They compiled their findings into a helpful infographic:. Sexual repression is no fun, and can lead to even more sexual anxieties, distraction, inability to achieve orgasm, and dissatisfaction with one's sex life. If you do have a fantasy you would like to share with your partner, but don't know where to get started, here are some DOs and DON'Ts to navigate that conversation with ease and get your kink on!

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